The Ending in the Change
No matter how much we want a change, and know deep down that we need it, it’s the finality, the closed door of imagining an ending that causes us to pace back and forth before we start heading...
View ArticleExperimenting with your new role
An important part of the questioning period is what is called role rehearsal. During this period, the person tries on the new role in the same way that a person would try on a pair of shoes before...
View ArticleWhen and how you begin doubting yourself, part II
Yesterday, I talked about the thoughts that go rooting around in your head as you start to panic and contemplate backing out of making a major change in your life. Today, I’ve got a few more. I’ve...
View ArticleWhen and how you begin doubting yourself
An individual can torture herself by doubting and questioning the idea of leaving, which can prolong indefinitely the decision to leave. And they don’t just delay the process of leaving and creating a...
View ArticleThe importance of structure
The morning after you leave a job, not waking up to the alarm clock at the crack of dawn feels strange. You walk though the house, listening to the sounds that do on during the morning and afternoon...
View ArticleWhen your mentor becomes toxic
In the best senario, having an mentor means that we get a sense of support, direction and a good kick in the pants when we need it. For creatives, even though we know that our paths are unique, it’s...
View ArticleBeing a mentor to yourself
If you’re going through your new life working as a creative entrepreneur, are you doing it alone? Do you currently have guidance from a more experienced person? Or are you one of those who feel...
View ArticleTowards a better sales pitch
How is your elevator pitch going? What’s an elevator pitch, you ask? It’s 25 words or less that describe what you do. In its simplest form, it covers: Who are you? What do you do? Why are you here?...
View ArticleHow to develop a positive self image
Last time, I talked about how to tell if you’ve got a negative self image. When your life work revolves on your own ideas and creativity, having a negative self image sabotages your work even before...
View Article4 ways to get into or stay out of the game
The other day, I was running down my local running trail, and I met the local community college baseball team who were huffing and puffing in the other direction. And seeing them reminded me of a...
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